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Passion and emotional closeness has gradually morphed into silent routines and polite indifference. This may be just the tip of the iceberg.

We know from our own work with couples that a far greater number are emotionally disconnected even if they do have occasional sex. For these roommate marriages, once strong passion and emotional closeness has gradually morphed into silent routines and polite indifference.

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Roommates are doing all the work of being married while getting few of the benefits. They do not feel loved, honored and cherished. And without a cushion of sexual and emotional closeness their relationship feels hard and brittle. Everyday stresses are harder to bare, parenting becomes more difficult and staying faithful looms as a bigger and bigger challenge.

Why do so many husbands and wives who start off loving one another as soulmates end up living together as roommates? We see two main reasons over and over again. The first is benign neglect. Without realizing it they take one another and their marriage for granted. The second, more prevalent reason, has to do with the mismanagement of anger.

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Anger is inevitable in a marriage. But problems develop when un feelings are allowed to pile up. Accumulated anger kills love and passion. And yet, despite the anger and neglect most husbands and wives, as well as partners in sincere, long-term relationships do not want to be just roommates.

Can roommates become soulmates? Are you in a roommate marriage and want to change?

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Here are six pointers to get you thinking and acting in a more marriage-friendly direction. We call this kind of seeing imageless perception. Images are made up of bad memories you and your partner have of each other.

These Images then color how you see and react to one another. They prevent you from seeing each other fresh in the mariage moment.

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Reacting from images is a major reason why you and your partner get stuck repeating old tit for tat cycles of bickering and blame. Imageless perception interrupts this pattern by denying images the mental energy they need to survive. Whenever you notice yourself dwelling on past memories pull the plug on them by switching your attention to the present moment.

In the present you can consciously choose to create a more loving space for you and your partner Elegant lady 24 Sevilla 24 appear in.

You can choose to be more forgiving; appreciating and valuing one another as if you only had today. Savor the good in your marriage, put it front and center, have gratitude for and celebrate all that works well between you.

Playing together is where you create opportunities to re-discover the important things that first drew you together. Set some time aside on a regular basis to be alone together. Keep it simple rooomate stress free. This kind of non-competitive play can be a strong aphrodisiac. But knowing when to let go is just as important.

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Digging your heels in, being rigid and refusing to budge can make you feel powerful. Prioritize your needs.

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Is your need to be right more important than your need to be loved? Being flexible and cooperative brings caring and affection toward you while needing to be right pushes love away. To people on the street you give passive attention. The persistently barking dog gets your negative attention. Affectionate attention is reserved for those closest to situatipn, those you love. Affectionate attention is special because it is infused with caring, concern, interest and involvement.

It contains no judgments, blame or criticism.

Partners in roommate marriages often feel judged and unappreciated. They say they feel invisible, that their presence is not welcomed and their voice is not heard.

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Affectionate attention cuts through this sad situation by offering a safe emotional space where your partner feels valued and cherished. You listen deeply to both the facts and feelings in what your partner shares. Carefronting marrjage taking the hot emotion out of anger. Horney teens 22554 is nothing about anger itself that is bad or destructive.

Some people latch onto anger and feel empowered by it.

They vent their anger and say and do things they later regret. Others latch on in a different way. It comes out disguised as being moody or sad or not feeling well. There are also those individuals who nurse their anger, they hold onto it for long periods of time.

They always have some old anger on hand to add to roomaye new anger that comes up.

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You begin watching for any angry feelings as soon as they start moving inside you. You will not immediately latch and automatically begin repeating bad anger habits.

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In fact, carefronting will help you be on friendly terms with your anger so you can express it directly in a non-blaming and non-attacking way. This sets the stage for discovering the issue or issues that triggered anger in the first place. A simple rroomate Consequently, most of us operate with a kind of me first survival mentality. We rarely consider an alternative way of being.

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Loving as soulmates rather than living together as roommates requires this alternative way of being. Your best self, rather than your ego, must guide your actions. Your best self is wise, fearless and kind. Sit quietly alone for five minutes a day. Keep your eyes open, take in your surroundings but do not think about what you see. Instead, sense the silence that surrounds and envelops all you see, hear and feel.

Listen to the silence, savor the depth and expansiveness of it. This timeless silence is the non-material dimension of life; tune into it, become more familiar with it and it will mareiage you switch out of being in survival mode. Are You Roommates or Soul Mates?

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